danivon wrote:DF - in response to your last reply to me:
1) I have not been asserting that my moral view of marriage is 'the moral definition', and I have not been claiming that there is a single moral definition of marriage. So my morality and its sources (which do exist, just because they are not supernatural does not mean they do not exist) are irrelevant. Snide comments based on your prejudices about atheists even less relevant.
So . . . because you are not making assertions, your sources are irrelevant?
Okay.
2) The point about morality is that we don't all agree. Not even all Christians agree, let alone everyone on the planet. Does that mean I subscribe to total moral relativism? Nope. It means that I take a step back and notice that what is considered the 'moral' definition or view of something is not set in stone (or 'as it were' set in stone), but fluid. It can vary over time and between people and groups of people at the same time.
Right. Some people think it's fine to sodomize 4 year-olds. That doesn't mean they're right. So, we agree on that.
However, if there is to be any standard, there must be a source. It can be you, it can be the Bible, it can be Hugh Hefner, it can be majority rule, but there has to be a source. You're acting as if there can be a "moral definition of marriage" without a source. I think that's rubbish.
3) So regardless of your moral definition of marriage (or anyone else's), the reality comes down to what marriage actually is.
That is meaningless. It's a moving cloud of nonsense.
I know that some think it is just about God and the couple, but for a very long time it has been about far more than just that (and for millions, if not billions, God is not seen as a factor).
Immaterial. If there is a God, it doesn't matter if some, many, or all disregard Him.
It's about inheritance, property, relationships with the State and with others, duites and obligations, rights and entitlements. When you assert that States are the ones who should define marriage, you undermine any resort to 'moral' aboslutes - there are 50 States, and already they have a range of different definitions.
You've just described the Constitution. You've also described contracts. We needn't change the definition of a word so that homosexuals can have contractual protection.
4) Do you have a citation for that British case you bring up? I found one where the lad in question had been convicted with a suspended sentence, but not a 'not guilty' verdict.
Oh. Sorry. His sentence was suspended. That's a very harsh punishment. All he did was meet her on Facebook, groom her, then had sex with her. Of course, she tempted him.
5) I never asserted that it was 'good and right to force the morality of a minority on everyone else'. I don't agree even that it is good and right to force the morality of a majority on everyone else.
Once again, you're pretzeling yourself to try and not take a stand: well done.
You still have not answered the question why you are insisting that I am not allowing you to believe what you want. You called me intolerant on that basis, and asserted moral superiority for it, but still I can't see how disagreeing with you does this.
Actually, I didn't assert moral superiority. You inferred that. If you're tolerant of my position, then quit arguing with me--I can express my opinion and you are free to reject it. See how that works?
Essentially, you call me intolerant, because I don't agree with legal bans on stuff. Meh.
No, because you can't let go of your base idea: that I HAVE to be wrong and you HAVE to prove it. By any definition, that's not tolerance.