We've established that you're gay and that because of this you no longer feel at home in the Republican Party.
What? Who the hell said I was gay?

Point taken.
I understand what you are saying about the Republican propaganda. But it would be ridiculous to think that those in power do not spread misinformation or exaggerations to massage public opinion for them and against their opponents/enemies. Remember when I said that I hear "certain words" I start to get a little skeptical. This comes from half a lifetime (OK, almost a quarter of a lifetime...turned 36 fairly recently) of first, being in a county Republican club, then doing a 179 (one wouldn't call it a 180) politically speaking. During this journey I have learned that politics tends to be in code. I do not carry the pretense of having deciphered it all, like I am Bletchley Park and the political system is one, big Enigma machine (though it acts like a machine sometimes, and it is a rather large enigma, eh?) During this entire time, having walked along the pathways within both realms, I have learned to be skeptical of rather a lot it, believe it or not.
You can make the assertion of my having bought the official GOPropaganda on this issue--my own deciphering machine has its own flaws, and everyone wants to think (s)he's the one person in the room capable of seeing through the bulls*** that everyone else is believing--but the fact of the matter is that there is plenty of Democrap floating around in the bowl at this point. (Forgive the metaphor.)
However, I am glad that you said in your last statement (though I wish you could have broken it up into a few distinct paragraphs to have made it easier to read

) that there is ridiculousness on both sides. A lot of people watching internationally tend to "take sides" in American politics. Usually they take the side of the Democrats for some reason. To me, having done a 179 or not, this is not conclusive proof I should necessarily be voting Democratic. (Is the majority always right? I think it's frequently misguided, one of the inherent flaws in a democratic society; and one must remember that only a fraction of the rest of the World watching the United States and its politics is actually composed of democracies, anyway!)
Still disagree that the Dems are less ideologically motivated. Not the ones I've experienced! Then again, I am in a highly ideologically-motivated sector of society. Which, by the way, is a special interest group, no different at the end of the day than Big Oil [or Big Whatever] as far as lobby groups go--perhaps our "end" is just different?
And of course we know (and obviously you were being sarcastic when you put liberal media in quotation marks) that the American media is not all liberal!
I admit that my position as a foreign observer might cause me to miss some of the nuances, but I do think that if the Republicans were to ease off on the gridlock the Dems would rapidly follow suit, whereas if the Dems were to ease off the Reps would just bank all the concessions and double down.
Well, it's definitely not through lack of intelligence I have to say that. You're obviously all intelligent and interested observers. But yes, I think that those on "the outside" of American politics--I mean that figuratively because no one is really on the "outside" of the politics of the superpower if it's the superpower, right?--tend to miss certain things. It's all too easy a trap to fall into to see the United States through the eyes of one's own country, and perhaps apply to it certain political norms of one's own country which are not valid or relevant in the United States. Americans are often accused of looking at the rest of the World through their own eyes, politically--like "If Iraq were democratic, like us, they'd be happier and less oppressed" for example--and of course we're guilty of that charge...as is everybody else when they look back...not all of them realize it though; and I have to give you kudos for seeing that to that degree.
If either side of the political equation were to ease off, the other would rapidly double down and try to fill the void with their own ideology. Everyone wants to think that only their politics are the benevolent ones, and that the opposition's policies are just horrific, so we must, "for the good of the people", continue to fight for them on their behalf. That's what they all deceive themselves into thinking. It almost creates a bipolar, nuclear brinksmanship state of things. Have you seen the movie
Thirteen Days? It's about the Cuban Missile Crisis. One of the more hard-line, rabidly anti-communist generals (might have been Curtis E. LeMay or one of his associates) was talking like, if we don't apply all this pressure to the Soviets, and bring them to the brink, if we look weak in the face of their threat it'll just encourage them. We let them have Cuba, it'll just encourage a nuclear strike on us, and then we'll have to make a pre-emptive strike on the Soviet Union...etc., etc. And so are some American politicians. Like this business of suing the President.
I will say that the Democratic Party is *slightly* more fractured than the Republicans. But the GOP will fracture soon enough, with "traditional" Republicans (whatever than means) vs. Teabaggers--excuse me, Partiers---and believe it or not there are a lot in between. Because of course, you have Blue Dog Democrats still in existence in Congress (though probably very few and their numbers are getting less). I gather, in contrast, there is no such thing as a "Blue Dog Labour M.P." is there?
So who is at fault for the gridlock? I hate to sound like the typically-disgruntled or an "unintelligent" voter, but a lot of the bastards are at fault. Or at least, they are following the bastards who are at fault. And I'm sorry, guys, but both of the parties must take equal blame for this Cold War-style nuclear/political "brinksmanship".
Other people are trying to build fallout shelters, thinking they can "win"; I think the more honest among us should start a "nuclear freeze" movement, of sorts, if you get my drift. For me, I almost wonder if the best defense I have against it, is to be as close as possible to Ground Zero when it goes off that I won't feel anything.
