danivon wrote:bbauska - I think you are being unfair. We have been told that the new legal position goes against the 'moral' and 'traditional' definitions of marriage.
First, since your hobby is to pick at nits, there is no "new legal position." No one has declared that homosexual marriage is the law of the land from sea to shining sea.
I don't believe I argued about "traditional" definitions.
It was one of the Christians here who linked those to the Biblical definition, the Christian definition. So, we are not allowed to respond to that? DF called it intolerant, you call it foolish and sneering.
I said your response is intolerant.
DF- The point is that I have not 'swallowed' it, or 'taken it at face value'. I found it interesting, I checked up on one of the claims that most surprised me, and I asked if it were correct on the other claims it made on the facts (yes, they are all opinions, but heis not asserting them as his own, but as the positions of historical figures, which are pieces of evidence concerning the fluidity or otherwise of the 'Christian' view of marriage).
You miss my point, naturally. The "Christian view" of marriage is not defined by snippets of writings from Luther or whomever. Again, I'm confident that if one was to do justice to reviewing that article it would be a PhD thesis. You would have to exhaustively review the writings of each Christian author cited to determine whether a given quote or quotes accurately represented their position. That is why I'm not willing to respond to it--I'm not working on a PhD on the history of the Protestant understanding of marriage.
It is my hypothesis that if we were to ask the men cited they about homosexual marriage directly they would not affirm it. I have seen no evidence to contradict that. I'm also not aware of evidence of any men I would consider to hold orthodox views of salvation (Luther, Calvin, etc), either being polygamous or suggesting the Bible permits it. There is a big problem for such a view--Ephesians 5 compares the marriage relationship with that of Christ and the church. It says Christ died for the church and that husbands are to emulate that attitude of self-sacrifice. Christ did not die for many wives, nor are husbands commanded to love multiple wives.
If he is correct, it is not some slam-dunk, but it is interesting how things have varied even within Christianity - and let us please accept that Christianity does not have a monopoly on marriage, as Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism, other pre-Christian faiths have their own views, as do more recently founded religions and of course the secular world.
That's fine. However, if there is one morality, that issued and designed by God, then what Hindus, Buddhists, and secularists believe is immaterial in terms of altering morality. They may declare "moral" whatever they like; it won't change what IS moral. That is unalterable.
If you don't want the Christian definition (and your interpretation of it) to be discussed by us heathens, it probbaly wasn't the best idea to bring it into the discussions as 'the moral definition', eh?
Actually, I didn't do it in a way that suggested all had to bow to it. I've said over and over again that you may believe as you please. I don't know what else to say. I'm not going to argue morality with someone who believes it evolves. There is no objectivity in such a world view and so it is a complete waste of time to debate with someone whose footing can easily shift.