http://www.realclearpolitics.com/epolls/latest_polls/ray
I think that you are right, but fundamentally, this presents Obama's weakness. He shouldn't lose patience because how he feels doesn't matter
Noble thoughts. But its unlikely any kind of compromise is really possible with the current political quagmire that is US politics within the consitutional make up and system of governance. You have to have opponents willing to meet you half way in order to compromise with them....
Moreover; your thought that Obama takes the heat for this is not supported by evidence of public attitudes.(Which is what really matters.)
In the CBS poll published today Congress gets a 64% disapproval rating whilst Obama gets a 6% approval rating. (see polls linked)
The election is not going to be fought primarily over Obamas record, simply because amongst the electorate he doesn't get the majority of blame for the countries malaise. Bush still gets the major part of the blame for the crash, and Congress the major part of the blame for legislative inaction. Obama disappoints, yes. But only because he hasn't over come intransigence. In the same way, the Cubs disappoint, but "they really didn't have a chance anyway". (And he also disappoints the far left, who hav't got anywhere else to go with their disappointment)
What Obama is going to do is tie Mitt closely to the republican positions in congress. (Mitt is willing to go along with this, because he's backed himself into that corner. If he tries to disavow, he'll end up facing a litany of ads with his visage repeating contradictory positions ad nauseum. Aways compelling negative ads.) And so Obama is going to fight the election on a large narrative of the guy fighting for the middle class/ working class versus the guy fighting for wall street and rich folk .
Mitt faces an uphill battle in this narrative... And the republicans havn't done him any favours by the recent surge in "anti-women" legislation . Both nationally and at the state levels these moves have entrenched women solidly against Mitt, who faces an uphill battle on this issue too. (Being a Mormon Bishop really is a difficult thing to negotiate on his attitudes to women) When you add in massive Obama majoritites with Blacks and Latinos, Mitt needs to win a huge majority amongst white men and its doubtful there exist enough of these as mallable voters currently .
On a state by state basis, Mitt has to win most of the battleground states ...where the mallable group is significant. And he's too far behind in many, with vastly unpopular history (say in the auto industry states) to recover.
The reason I made my predictions now, is becasue, frankly the group in the middle that is capable of changing their minds is pretty small. Only in the battleground states is the group large enough to matter... Mitt will win the traditional southern republican states by large margins, Obama wiill win the safe Democratic regions by smaller margins and most of the balleground states by a couple of points... The math on this is really against Mitt. Especially if the economy doesn't change direction.... It is going, (too slowly) in the right direction, and direction matters most for incumbents. Moreover, when the debate does focus on the economy, where Mitt is suppossed to be stronger, it may actually turn to Obamas advantage. Most of Mitts positions on economic policy were remarkably similar to Bushes ....and Obama will harken to those fond memories,..