bbauska wrote:Washington State had the opportunity to have a full rights of marriage, but calling it "civil partnerships. RickyP AND Danivon both said that was not good enough, as the separate terms could be interpreted as not being equal even though the rights were the same.
Washington State did not actually have that opportunity, because federal-level marriage rights would not have applied to civil partnerships, rendering them unequal.
That was my main point, and why DOMA was not simply about wording. The reason that an equal-in-law marriage could not happen was that the 1,000+ federal provisions on marriage did not apply to civil unions etc. Sure, an act could be passed to equate them in law, but DOMA was squatting in the way.
Ricky may have emphasised the point you ascribe to us far more than I did. I do agree that the difference in language can be, and is, seen by homosexuals as a signifier of difference and of inferiority. It does come across as a bit 'separate-but-equal', even if partnerships were also in reality unequal anyway.
What is the main difference? A marriage made in one state is recognised federally and by all other states. A civil union/domestic partnership/gay marriage does not have to be recognised by the federal government or other states. As people are not restricted to live in a single state, but have full freedom to move around, this was (and as far as I can tell still is) a material difference between the two.
I never liked DOMA, but said since Clinton signed it; it was law, and should be revoked legislatively. It was cowardice to not do anything about it, and let the Supreme Court deal with it.
Clinton did sign it into law, but it had also received enough Congressional votes to override a veto so had he refused it would likely have been forced through on the Hill. Also, the Supreme Court has a long history of nullifying laws. I agree that Congress have been cowards, first to put it through, and since to never revoke it, but they do seem scared of the religious / 'moral' lobby...
At least the Marriage Protection Act was never passed, which would potentially have cut off the appeal that led to the USSC decision (although the MPA was dodgy constitutionally itself).